Robustness and Shiny Pearl Shell

Robustness and Shiny Pearl Shell

Alhamdulillah Hamdan katsiro mubarokan FIH. Cor shali 'ala Muhammadin wa' ala wa alihi sahabihi ajma'in. Amma ba'd.

Households human life like a nest that protects anyone members who participated in it. More precisely like a shell that covers the pearl in it. When the shell is solid then the pearl that's shining beautifully, and vice versa. So in the household it is necessary to consider how the polite and ordinances for the household remained firm. 

A. Obligations of the Husband / Household Leaders

In the household there is a man who is responsible for the survival of his household, he was the leader of the household, he was the husband of a woman and the father of her children. He is in charge of solidified shell of the pearl and it was he charged with protecting the gleaming pearl in its shell, as well pebbles are not covered by the precious fluid that will shape it into a pearl. So that the head of this household have a big hand in guiding him and his family. Allah Ta'ala says, "O ye who believe, guard yourselves and your families from hell fire fuel is men and stones; guardian angels are rough, hard, and do not disobey Allah in what He commanded them and always do what is commanded " (At-Tahrim: 6).

For a head of household to household seeks solidified shell is necessary to note several things. Are (1) Al-'Ilmu."Book (Al Quran) there is no doubt, guidance for those who are pious " (Al-Baqarah: 2). The Qur'an is a guide for instructions from any human being in the life of this world and for anyone who would follow him. Allah said, "O ye who believe, obey Allah and obey the Apostle (His), and leaders of you. Then if you are different opinions about something, refer it to Allah (Al Quran) and Prophet (Sunnah) , if you truly believe in Allah and the Last Day. That is more mainstream (for you) and the better the outcome"(An-Nisa: 59). Neither the Messenger of Allaah upon him blessings and often instructed to follow the instructions and rules, such as the Messenger ofAllaah alaihi wasallam said, "pray you as I pray", "please ablution like I ablution." The things that nature worship must follow the Messenger of Allaah upon him blessings, not only that many of the friends who do everything exactly as the Prophet.

Ibn Ummar as to be regarded as a strange person, but he persisted in principle. Because what example he is the best person ever born on Earth. Neither in domestic matters to them. No wonder their household really solid and romantic, away from the division let alone divorce. So a solid household is the household who pay attention to how the Qur'an and the Sunnah speak and regulate matters relating to all the joints of his life, because it is the heritage of two best ever given by God through His Messenger of Allaah alaihi wasallam is a blessing for the whole of nature. If the household does not pay attention to the signs Shari'a let alone ignores the Qur'an and Sunnah, the pearl shell rapuhlah household. Even the cracks and destruction will side with them. Na'udzubillah wa na'udzubillah.

(2) The property is lawful, is a very important part of the robustness of the household. Not only that, the sheen of pearls and pearl quality of candidates will also be very bad if mahisyah (source of income) of property is forbidden. How is it possible that a solid shell, while affirming the wrath of Almighty God with the person responsible for the robustness of shell of the household. 

The property obtained from the haram, then it is not intrinsically valuable treasure at all, especially in the presence of God Almighty. Although the owner of the treasure fan oneself with money, he coins bath and inattentive on the results. He felt rich luxury homes, sleek cars and acres of rice fields, but essentially it poor and did not have anything when all was obtained from the illicit wealth and treasure from abuse of others. Did not the Messenger of Allaah upon him blessings and never told that there was someone who he is diligent in religious duties, jihad in the way of Allah, Hajj and Umrah, he dressed in rumpled and tattered, and he raised his hand and calling out of Allah, "O Rabb ... O Rabb ", but his food is haraam, his drink unlawful, his clothing unlawful, and illegal acquisition of wealth," how may his prayer be accepted? ". This is a principle, then the shell of the pearl will be fragile and one day "SURE" it shattered. When the shell is destroyed, must pearl in it were also damaged and not worth anymore ... if value, then the price is very cheap. Destruction in the household is not just divorce, but the bickering, the atmosphere is peaceful, it is also the bleak heart cracks and destruction. Even worse is, they intimate, romantic and very loving but it seemed from the outside. 

Though their hearts are filled with anxiety, their faith wavered, even infidelity is in his heart even though he had faith ...na'udzubillah ... thumma na'udzubillah.

Or even he admitted to Islam, Islamic states rahmatalil 'alamin, but he left the primacy of prayer, he did not know the science of religion, and he hurt other people who cause great unrest and the threat will be inflicted upon him and his family ...na'udzubillah thumma na 'udzubillah.

A.1 Tell a Story

There are two teenagers who lived in a housing complex and facing each other. Both are studying in a city and away from parents. Teens who one lived in a house quite simple but luxurious, the facilities available, good TV and a kitchen was ready puffing smoke. Reportedly she was a rich kid, his wealth was so great that he could buy a house in the town where his daughter studied, not to mention his home in his native area, very luxurious. In fact he is the richest man in his village, around the small house and crammed cheek by jowl. But unfortunately, it turns out this guy produce toxins that are harmful to mankind. Toxins that can damage the physical organ of His servants. He knew that the goods produced is harmful to the health of the children of Adam, he even wrote on the cover of its products that its product is extremely hazardous to health. However, he still sold it ... he is still hiring workers who need money to make toxins that destroy the servants of Allah Ta'ala. Where stupid people who do not be tempted by more money and delicious opium? must have been a cruel are the manufacture and the most sinful and the most responsible is that produced it. Not only producing the goods "haram", he also had to hurt people as a human child has a serious intention to invite his daughter to the ark. He did not behave well and ignorant, just as he was indifferent to his neighbors (God knows best), chilled as cold as he saw his neighbors house (God knows best). Witnessed that this human child raised his hand to God, asking Him for something that is inappropriate for inflicted for people like him. 

In front of the house compound, in the town where the child lived toxin producers. Stay a teenage who lived in the house who was nice enough, but the facility can not complete its neighbors. Reportedly, she occupied a house which belonged to her brother who is generous to his family. Subhanallah, her parents never glorify a human child. He and her parents never took the sharing and discussion of issues of life and religion, witnessed that this human child raised his hand in God Almightyand pray for goodness and welfare for her and her family. Reportedly, it turns out the father is only working as coach of the tender for the field to operate heavy equipment. He worked for money kosher and halal money he sought, he started from zero to quite able to educate their children. Alhamdulillah, thanks to the grace of God, his brother lent his house to live in his place ... located right in front of employers' products are "haram" is. When we see, which of both rich and poor which ones?

Of course, the essence of his work as coach of the tender that is very rich field. Although still a home loan, salary may be small and not much, but it is worth in the sight of Allah Ta'ala. It is reported that his family built in the frame of romanticism, a sense of close connection between the wife and kids in touch. Even his children are very pleasant and a role model worthy of friends around him. Unlike the first, it turns out they were less harmonious family relationships literally (Allahu knows best), his inner child with a parent with a wife-husband is very far ... far ... away from happiness and may God keep him away if he did not also conscious of his guilt. Let him feel it in the world and fast even in the last world with He Ta'ala will forgive them.

B. Wife Role

Wife is a next generation backbone. He plays a very urgent and risky. It is therefore not surprising that the children of disobedience is not a pure child, but because her parents are the people who neglect their duties as a mother for child. The writer wondered, there was a woman who delayed his pass master until illegitimate, illegitimate he delayed until he was successful in his career. Does he want to abandon her children someday?

Wife who was busy with his work will give her children the education assistants. Though the task of educating children is the duty of mothers and do not be surprised if now more children are born to be child-minded maid.

Look at the wife salaful Ummah, until Ummar Ibn Khaththab hard and firm enchanted by her kindness. When his wife was probably tired and effort, reasonable when he emotionally to a point. Ummar Ibn Khaththab just did not respond. Once asked by someone then Ummar replied, "My wife had washed my clothes, cook for me, educate my kids and he was very instrumental to me. Did I was mad at her when she was tired and maybe a little annoyed with me?".Subhanallah this is the figure that Shalihah wife. How do we also have heard the story of Umm Sulaim and Abu Talha, how romantic they are. So the wife must also underlie themselves with useful knowledge, especially of religious knowledge.

No household of salaful umma who scattered even divorced, because they understand how to establish foundations to protect the pearl shell in order to remain in it's shining. Finally, hopefully this long bit of writing is able to provide views to all of us. May God always gives our guidance in life and be turn of in Husnul khatimah. Alhamdulillah, Hamdan katsiro mubarokan fih. Allahumma shali 'ala Muhammadin wa 'ala alihi wa sahabihi ajma'in.

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